Today I am Philadelphia and attending a conference. Our professional speaker was Major General Vincent Boles.

His website:  http://www.vinnyboles.com

He gave a great speech. Concise, clear and as you might expect from a military General, blunt at times. The speech covered various aspects of leadership and how application of leadership can be simplified. One point he made in the speech was consideration of how you are viewed by people in your life, your family, friends, coworkers, subordinates, etc. The story behind the concept was about a member of the clergy officiating over a funeral at Arlington National Cemetery. The clergyman (unknown if pastor, priest, etc) did not know the deceased veteran or his family. He leaned in to the widow and asked “What three words best describe your husband?”

Three words? This man had been in World War II, Korea and Vietnam. Had a family, children, grandchildren. Boil down a life like that down to three words.

It is a provocative concept and it got me to thinking. I think I might create a website or an email survey and ask a long list of people I know, even those who might not like me too much, to give me three words. I think it would be interesting.

It would be interesting to get that feedback while I can change how I impact those around me. Plus, many people in my life are comedians so it could end up being more like a Friar’s Roast.

Me? I was awakened by a phone call from a close friend in the NYC area. I answered and she said to turn on the TV. I asked what channel. She replied “any”. Few things spoken to me in my life ever had any truly lasting impact. Certainly nothing as much as that three letter word spoken that morning.

Some people say “never forget”. That three letter word and everything that came with it is like a railroad spike driven into my skull. Never forget? Who could?

Positive energy from me to all of you.